Tuesday, February 18, 2014

Practicing the virtues...



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Monday, February 10, 2014

God's timing is impeccable!

I love God's timing.
     I had a lot going on today. The timing of events was a bit tricky (pretty much typical for many busy women, right?). As I was driving back from dropping one daughter off at the gym after dropping another daughter a bit earlier to my husband who was taking her to the train, I exhaled and prayed, asking God to work out the timing for the train. It seemed that my daughter might miss it.
     As soon as I prayed, a saw a beautiful brown owl fly right up in front of my car and up above me to land on the telephone wires. It was a such pretty sight. I love when God puts owls in my path.
     I continued on to the Post Office where I would sit in the car for as long as it took to assemble a bunch of packages that needed to be postmarked by today. It was about 4:30 PM and I needed to hurry. I got everything ready within the confines of my car while I prayed a few prayers for God's holy will.
     I then went into the Post Office and when I was up at the counter a woman came over and asked if anyone had seen her credit card, She had left the Post Office earlier after taking care of her business there but seemed to have lost her card. I looked around but didn't see a card.
     When I finished my transactions I went outside to go to my car but I saw the same woman just outside the door talking to another person about not being able to find her credit card. I started asking her where she looked for it so far and where she had walked earlier. Then I started to help her re-trace her steps. I also told her that she needed to put a coat on because it was freezing out. She agreed she should have worn a coat.
     I walked her to her car but there was no sign of the credit card anywhere. She was very worried that her husband would be angry at her because it was his card. She decided to give up and go home because she didn't know what else to do. I questioned her a bit more about what it looked like and came to find out that she had dropped her receipt after she left the Post Office.
     "Where?" I asked.
     "Over there by the flag pole," she remembered.
     "But, I already looked there," she added.
     I was thinking that if she dropped her receipt she might have dropped the credit card too. We both thought that perhaps someone had found it and picked it up since she didn't see it over there. But, I wasn't ready to give up quite yet (though I was freezing cold and did need to go to pick up my daughter).
     Since she was already in her car and I knew she was cold I told her that I would go over to the other end of the parking lot and look for it. I told her when she drove by to leave the parking lot she would see me and would know if I had found it or not.
     I started to walk toward the flag pole.
     "Please, Lord, help me find her credit card."
     Before I got to the flag pole, for some reason on the way I decided to look under the back of a car. When I did, I could see what looked like a driver's license lying under the car and crouched down to discover that it was a credit card! I could definitely understand why the woman couldn't find her card. It was totally hidden beneath the car! I bent down a bit further, picked it up, and rushed over to the woman's car. I held it up to her window to get her attention as she was getting ready to back up and leave. The look of astonishment on her face was well worth all of the looking in the freezing cold.
     She opened her car door and received the card from me and was extremely thankful. I told her that I was very happy I had found it for her.
     "You're some kind of an ANGEL!" she said. She just couldn't get over that someone was "sent" to help her.
     I reached into my pocket and pulled out a blessed Miraculous Medal.
     "I think you're supposed to have this too," I told her. I kissed the medal and touched it to the one I wear which Mother Teresa gave me.
     She accepted the gift of the medal and just looked at it. She then told me that she was very happy to receive it.
     "I need a miracle right about now," she told me referring to the Miraculous Medal.
     I told her that I think God already gave her a miracle--her credit card was found!
      I also gave her my business card and told her that she could email me if she'd like to know more about the Miraculous Medal and she could also check out my website for more information too. I explained that I was an author and wrote about the Miraculous Medal and many spiritual things.
     Then--at the exact same time we asked one another what our names were. Her name is Anne, by the way. Please say a little prayer for her.
     Anne was in awe and was beaming about the blessed encounter. I gently touched her arm and told her that she could feel free to be in touch and that I would pray for her.
     God's timing is always incredible and one hundred per cent impeccable. Had I been afforded the time earlier at home to finish assembling the things I needed to get into the mail today I probably wouldn't have encountered Anne at the Post Office. We have to totally trust God with the timing of everything in our lives. He knows what He is doing.
     Oh, and by the way, my daughter made her train with a bit of time to spare. :)

Snapped this pic out the car window on the way home after meeting Anne.
Seems like God painted the sky with water colors--beautiful! 
Be sure to take the time to look at the sky and God's beautiful handiwork in Creation all around you--wherever you may be. Take a moment today to reach out to a stranger in some way. You will be blessed indeed!
   
God bless you and yours!
   

Enjoy my visits on EWTN's Women of Grace.

Here is a link for you to watch the five shows on EWTN's Women of Grace when I recently visited with Johnnette Benkovic: http://www.donnacooperoboyle.com/visiting-women-of-grace-on-ewtn/

Enjoy!

God bless and hugs,

Wednesday, February 5, 2014

My recent EWTN Bookmark appearance!


I'm happy to share my recent visit with the wonderful Doug Keck on EWTN's Bookmark Television show. Doug and I discussed two of my recent books: Embracing Motherhood and The Miraculous Medal. Just click on the link and then click to make it full screen if you'd like. http://bcove.me/om8vynbt

 Enjoy!

 God bless! Donna-Marie

Discussing women's gifts and dignity on Women of Grace!


Watch Monday through Friday at 11:00AM/11:30PM
Tune in this week to EWTN's Women of Grace!


I am visiting with Johnnette Benkovic all this week on EWTN’s Women of Grace television show. We have a new show for each day!

This is what Johnnette Benkovic has to say: "What is the important role that mother's play in this our day and time? Find out on this week's #WomenofGrace TV series, "Catholic Moms 'For Such a Time as This'" with author and friend Donna-Marie Cooper O'Boyle. Watch Monday through Friday at 11:00AM/11:30PM on EWTN or via our website:http://www.womenofgrace.com/en-us/media/tv/details.aspx?id=643 "

I hope you can join us! 

God bless!



PS I will try to get links to the archives which will be on YouTube and the EWTN website and I'll share them with you.

Tuesday, February 4, 2014

Catholic Mom's Cafe: Appearing on Women of Grace all this week!

Catholic Mom's Cafe: Appearing on Women of Grace all this week!: Watch Monday through Friday at 11:00AM/11:30PM Tune in this week to EWTN's Women of Grace! I am visiting with Johnnet...

Monday, January 13, 2014

Angels for Kids!


I chatted with dear friend and radio personality, Teresa Tomeo this morning. We discussed the holy Angels and my book Angels for Kids.

Here's a link to our chat: http://www.donnacooperoboyle.com/blog/wp-content/uploads/2014/01/CC_DMCOB_01-13-14.mp3

I hope you enjoy it.

God bless you and yours!

Saturday, January 4, 2014

Catholic Mom's Cafe: Delicious gluten-free pizza on the grill!

Catholic Mom's Cafe: Delicious gluten-free pizza on the grill!: Our oven isn't working and we had a hankering for home-made gluten-free pizza. We love the pizza crust from "Against the Grain.&qu...

Catholic Mom's Cafe: Delicious Gluten Free pizza on the grill!

Catholic Mom's Cafe: Delicious Gluten Free pizza on the grill!: Our oven isn't working and we had a hankering for home-made gluten-free pizza. We love the pizza crust from "Against the Grain.&qu...

Sunday, December 29, 2013

Happy feast of the Holy Family!



Pope Benedict XVI has told us, "The family is the privileged setting where every person learns to give and receive love." Sometimes we may question his wisdom when the kids are acting up and the household seems to be anything but loving! Yet, it is in those very everyday circumstances that we can endeavor to rise to the occasion and to choose love.

We learn that, "The Christian family constitutes a specific revelation and realization of ecclesial communion, and for this reason it can and should be called a domestic church. It is a community of faith, hope, and charity; it assumes singular importance in the Church, as is evident in the New Testament" we learn from the Catechism (CCC # 2204).

Pope Paul VI has said, 
“Nazareth is a kind of school where we may begin to discover what Christ’s life was like and even to understand his Gospel.  Here we can observe and ponder the simple appeal of the way God’s Son came to be known, profound yet full of hidden meaning.
“And gradually we may even learn to imitate him...“First we learn from its silence. If only we could once again appreciate its great value...The silence of Nazareth should teach us how to meditate in peace and quiet, to reflect on the deeply spiritual, and to be open to the voice of God’s inner wisdom and the counsel of his true teachers. Nazareth can teach us the value of study and preparation, of meditation, of a well-ordered personal spiritual life, and of silent prayer that is known only to God.
“Second, we learn about family life. May Nazareth serve as a model of what the family should be. May it show us the family’s holy and enduring character and exemplifying its basic function in society: a community of love and sharing, beautiful for the problems it poses and the rewards it brings — in sum, the perfect setting for rearing children — and for this there is no substitute" (January 5, 1964).

The family is such an important "communion of persons." Even so, I think that many times we forget or lose sight of just how important it is. The family is attacked in a variety of ways by our culture and society. It's the mission of the family to defend the sacredness of the family and to bolster its strength through prayer and Christian teaching. As parents, through thick and thin, and throughout all of the many details of family life, we guide our family ever closer to Heaven each day.

Can we endeavor to find some quiet moments in which to immerse our hearts and souls in prayer even amid the busyness of family life? I believe we can do so, but it requires effort and determination to establish times for prayer and pondering. Without our efforts and our seeking God's graces, we might miss opportunities to grow in holiness. 

Even when we are determined to establish regular prayer times and to stick to them, inevitably life itself can get in the way of our efforts. Yet, I firmly believe that our Lord is in control and allows us extra opportunities to pray--perhaps in a way we hadn't planned. So, the child who spiked a fever and suddenly needs our constant attention or the one who is misbehaving and requires immediate correction, and the one who is hurting in some way and needs solace may rearrange our prayer times. But, all of them provide opportunities to pray actively as we tend to the needs in our domestic church. Every instance can bring grace. 

The Church reminds us, "The Christian family is a communion of persons, a sign and image of the communion of the Father and the Son in the Holy Spirit. In the procreation and education of children it reflects the Father's work of creation. It is called to partake of the prayer and sacrifice of Christ. Daily prayer and the reading of the Word of God strengthen it in charity. The Christian family has an evangelizing and missionary task" (CCC # 2205).

It might be interesting to consider that God in His Infinite wisdom has specifically chosen each and every member of your family to be together in your domestic church--to grow in faith, hope, and love. Each member, in a myriad of ways helps the others to get to heaven. Yes, it's true! You might want to think about that very fact the next time there's a dispute, a misunderstanding, or even a great joy celebrated. Are we choosing love? Our responses indeed help to transform hearts. Our sacrifices in helping the other truly aid in theirs and our journey to Heaven.

Have you paused to ponder your "missionary task"? As you minister and teach your family you are also affecting society with your exemplary example. Sometimes it is accomplished by the fact that you don't partake in various ungodly pastimes. At other times it is in your reaching out as a family to help the poor and needy that can strike a chord in a neighbor's heart. Your preaching won't necessarily be from the roof tops, but it will occur more than likely one by one--to one soul at a time as you strive to live up to your mission in your domestic church, all the while evangelizing the world too. God has it all figured out. 

Blessed Mother Teresa was very aware of the holiness which dwells in family life and often said, "Love begins at home." We must begin our evangelization in the hearts of our homes. Mother Teresa specifically told me, "...Let us learn to pray and work as Jesus did for 30 years in Nazareth. The life and work; the prayer and sacrifice at Nazareth are so much like what our life should be. That peace, joy and unity that joined the Holy Family together in prayer and work is such a wonderful living example to us. They grew in holiness together. Let us learn from Mary to pray and ask Her to pray that your home will be another Nazareth."

What amazing and poignant words to ponder today. May your home become "another Nazareth" as you pray to grow in holiness together!

Pope Francis celebrated the Feast of the Holy Family today on this first Sunday after Christmas. Our holy pontiff entrusted the work of the bishops to Jesus, Mary, and Joseph and recited this prayer:

Prayer to the Holy Family
Jesus, Mary and Joseph, in you we contemplate
the splendor of true love, to you we turn with trust.
Holy Family of Nazareth, grant that our families too
may be places of communion and prayer,authentic schools of the Gospel and small domestic Churches.
Holy Family of Nazareth, may families never again experience violence, rejection and division: may all who have been hurt or scandalized find ready comfort and healing.
Holy Family of Nazareth, may the approaching Synod of Bishops make us once more mindful of the sacredness and inviolability of the family, and its beauty in God’s plan.
Jesus, Mary and Joseph, graciously hear our prayer.

Amen.

***
Happy feast of the Holy Family!

Friday, December 13, 2013

Catholic Mom's Cafe: What do Catholic Moms really want for Christmas?

Catholic Mom's Cafe: What do Catholic Moms really want for Christmas?: Donna-Marie (in dress on right) with her mother and 4 of her 7 siblings Moms are always thinking of others—not so muc...

Monday, December 9, 2013

Moving closer to the crib

Here's a link to an Advent article I wrote last year but I thought you might enjoy it.

http://www.integratedcatholiclife.org/2012/12/donna-marie-cooper-oboyle-moving-closer-to-the-crib/

God bless and happy Advent!

Wednesday, December 4, 2013

Catholic Mom's Cafe: Keeping the season of Advent holy in our domestic ...

Catholic Mom's Cafe: Keeping the season of Advent holy in our domestic ...: It's that wonderful and holy time of year that our Church calls "Advent." We might be planning to observe this Advent in a ...

Monday, November 11, 2013

My daughter's book!

My artist daughter, Chaldea published her first book! It's titled, Farm House. It's lovely. Kids love it--you will too.





How cool is this?
Chaldea's new book at a popular book store in Northampton, Mass.

You can order your autographed copy from Chaldea's Etsy site through her blog: www.artbugillustrations.blogspot.com. Take a look. You'll also see a little about the making of this book.